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gifts - 14.2.2009
to all the ladies... just howbig a deal is it to you to receive a gift on valentines
day? this is what my husband of 21 years ask me
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Single on valentines day - 14.2.2009
Hay all, just wondering what all the single people will
be doing on this day of couples? Yes I know its a commercial
rip off, but it doesn't half highlight that you're
single!! So what can I do to distract myself from this most
unpleasant of commercial events?
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Silly warning - 14.2.2009
Isn't it rather silly to have the links from the TransenFlirt.com, Transen Kontakte, Shemale Kontakte, Transen Treff
site to the magazine take you to an 'Adult content' warning?
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ladies: don't ask ,don't tell - 14.2.2009
i met my girl on a main stream dating site, but we both had
a profile here. i found hers here just after i'd contacted
her on the other site. turns out we had similar interest
here as well.so i worked it in to conversation about this
profile as well.
the question is 1. do you tell people you meet on other sites of your profile
here or not. my girl says she would not have.
2.if ...
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Public sex-capades - 14.2.2009
I've 'done the deed' in the water at public
beaches with people nearby being none the wiser.
Anyone else enjoy the thrill of sex in public? ... Ok, that's
a silly question, but where and how did you hide what your
were doing?
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Persisent About Loving You - 14.2.2009
I take all the advice given here to heart. Women say time
and time again how they want a man to be more open and honest
with them. How men with family values and ability to commit
are desirable. I decided to live this sage advice and put
it to practice.
I met this woman some time ago. We really hit it off. The sex
was great. She liked it on the wild side so as a gentleman
I was happy to ...
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stank - 13.2.2009
I've had over 376 sexual partners, i have found you
can find a quality piece of ass by smelling the butt?
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1000 miles or more? Where are the Los Angeles women? - 13.2.2009
Why is it that 190 of the last 200 views are from 1000 miles
away or more?
Don't get me wrong! Being an exhibitionist in nature
this is great! However, looking without any hope of touching
can be a little discouraging...
Anybody else notice that their best matches are a 100's
- 1000's of miles away?
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Honesty - 13.2.2009
What would you do if you found that a man/woman you had been
talking to on here and were planning on meeting was not honest
in their profile.
Say they were 45 and are really 55 Say they are an executive and they are a trucker****
Say they are single and they are married.
You learn this because you do a little snooping and investigating
with the ...
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Inappropriate Dating Behavior - 13.2.2009
Inappropriate Dating Behavior
Many guys ask why dates don’t end up in bed and I respond that
their inappropriate behavior is their personal dating
failure!
The perfect date to spend the night with may not be your dream
date but must have at least one of the following physical
qualities:
1.She tolerates or does SMOKE CIGARETTES. All women that
smoke like sex or ...
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just how far - 13.2.2009
just how far would u go to get laid i mean really i have a guy
willing to pay my way across the country just to sleep with
him and another who's willing to move here just to have
sex. i'm depending on how much i want the guy im still not
willing to go to such extremes but im wondering how many
ppl are?
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Tomorrow is Valentines day - 13.2.2009
Ok folks, here is another challenge. Tomorrow is Valentines
day and a lot of folks dont have anyone to spend it with. You
can beat the "Valentine Blues" easily tho.
All you have to do is pick someone at random and anonymously
do something nice for em. If your going thru the toll booth,
pay for the person behind you also. The same can be done at
breakfast at the drive thru. Cut someone a ...
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Why is it that athletes cant have sex before sporting events? - 13.2.2009
Why is it that athletes cant have sex before sporting events?
You would think that doing some of this stuff with a hard
on would you know keep them from performing well hard. To run the 100 M dash in so many secs with a hard on. And it would be more of a target for kick boxers , I wonder how easy it would be to kick someone in a karate tournament
with a big boner. So really why aren't these poor ...
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Erection and Excitment in Self Decision? - 13.2.2009
Erection is an understanding state Excitment is a contradictory refoulishness Their stuffings are meant to be within the logic without
any artefacts but as well handled
Erection is complete Erection is partial
So no room for decision making standing in front of application?
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Ever find someone you know? - 13.2.2009
Yeah, here's one that's been on my mind for since
I've started here. What if, whilst perusing threw out the pages of people,
you find someone that you know already? What if that person
is a family member? I'm just curious as to how people
would react about it if, all of a sudden, their cousin or
whatever popped up saying "What are YOU doing here?!"
It's been a curiosity to me.
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What's Better - 13.2.2009
Giving Oral or Receiving?
doggystyle or froggystyle?
nibbling or bitten?
licking or sucking?
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Blurring the line between fantasy and reality - 12.2.2009
I'm curious about your experiences with living out
a fantasy (your own or to satisfy a partner). How did the
experience compare with your preconception? I'm
always surprised by how the idea of something can be a huge
turn on, while the reality proves lacking. (Of course the
reverse is also surprising, yet oh so much more satisfying)
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Stuck in the middle - 12.2.2009
SEX is all i ever think about!!!
Even at a young age looking at my fathers playboys amused
me... Now that i'm older and able to go out whenever
and with whoever i want, i would like to explore my sexuality
more, but i'm afraid of what my friends my possibly
find out or family. Ive already tried and done a countless
number of things but i would like to try something with a ...
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Not even a profile picture... - 12.2.2009
We have noticed that a number of people here do not have a
profile picture and end in one of the scenarios below..
Scenario 1; Long mail indicating how much they like what
they see and what they would want to do with what they are
seeing, .....but they do not even have a profile picture!!
Scenario 2; Wanting to be in your friends network, where
they can see you pictures, but they do not have an ...
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Seeking answers - 12.2.2009
Before exploring fantasy, fact or fiction, experts advise
singles to be prepared for the answers they seek. "Despite
the consequences, it is always better to know what you are
dealing with, than to live in a world of illusions, "
says Dr. Finner-Williams. "And when you ask a question,
if you really want to be certain, you should test the person
and ask the question again. Anything that is tested ...
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9. Are you interested in having ? - 12.2.2009
9. Are you interested in having ?
Knowing a person's position on having , adopting
or accepting a relationship with/ is
essential. You can't assume that because you know
someone, you can anticipate how he or she will react to issues
surrounding parenthood. "You simply cannot guess
when it comes to some thing as important as the rest of your
life, " says Tarrianna Gray, a ...
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8. What are your long-term goals? - 12.2.2009
8. What are your long-term goals?
Before establishing a goal for the relationship, it is
necessary to define the goals of the individuals, both
personally and professionally. "It's not as
important to ask specific questions, but to be willing,
and able, to communicate your needs and goals to your partner, "
says Copage, author of Black Pearls: Daily Meditations,
Affirmations and ...
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What do you prefer? - 12.2.2009
I am new to the scene (hence the name) and I want to be shown
how to do stuff. I also want to try new things but am afraid
of doing stuff wrong. so here's the question: Do people prefer their partners --To be bold and try new things on their own and tell them
if they are doing something wrong? --or-- --To let them be compliant and you show them what to do?
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7. Do you have any health issues? - 12.2.2009
7. Do you have any health issues?
Learning the overall health history of your new mate, including
his family's medical history, is essential if you're
considering a long-term relationship, or if
are involved. Given the health issues in the Black community,
genetic compatibility may help determine if this is the
right person for you. Ask your new partner about his family's
history of ...
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6. Are you interested in a commitment? - 12.2.2009
6. Are you interested in a commitment?
If your partner is reluctant to answer this question or
wants to refocus the conversation, this person is not ready
to make a commitment. "You should understand when
you're dealing with someone who is not ready or able
to respond to you on that level, " says Dr. Durant,
who provides telephone-coaching sessions, leading women,
step-by-step, through ...
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5. What is your idea of an ideal mate? - 12.2.2009
5. What is your idea of an ideal mate?
Knowing what your potential mate finds attractive is fundamental.
"You need to know if you come close to that person's
idea of an ideal mate, " says Dr. Williams, the Detroit
lawyer and psychologist who has counseled singles and
couples for over 30 years. "When there is discord,
the person will have a tendency to gravitate toward what
they are ...
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4. Why did you break up with your ex? - 12.2.2009
4. Why did you break up with your ex?
While you don't want to spend your entire date talking
about ex-partners, there are advantages to knowing the
reasons behind your new lover's break-up, or in many
cases, divorce. "I wouldn't recommend it for
the first date, but you want to know fairly quickly if you
plan to be involved beyond the immediate, " says
Copage. "Your lover's ...
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3. Are you in debt? - 12.2.2009
3. Are you in debt?
Although it is a sensitive topic, understanding your mate's
financial habits, not necessarily how much he or she earns,
is essential to the success of a long-term relationship.
"Even in the short run, spending habits can be indicators
of character, values and personality, " says Dr.
Paris Finner-Williams, lawyer, psychologist and co-author
(along with husband, Robert ...
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2. What is your fantasy? - 12.2.2009
2. What is your fantasy?
Although there is some debate about this question (many
critics citing that it redirects efforts outside of the
relationship instead of within), others maintain its
value depending on the circumstance. "Exploring
fantasy depends on how the relationship is moving, "
says Eric V. Copage, author of SoulMates, An Illustrated
Guide to Black Love Sex and ...
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1. Do you practice safe sex? - 12.2.2009
1. Do you practice safe sex?
Whether you're having sex with your partner or not,
knowing a mate's sexual behavior is a critical component
of building a relationship. "If you are having sex
now, or plan to in the future, you need to know your partner's
sexual habits, " says Dr. Durant. "You need
to know if your mate uses condoms, and if so, if he uses them
with everyone, or just certain ...
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